How Not To Loose Your Marriage To The House Help

Rule#1: Never employ an housemaid if you cannot really trust your husband with opposite sex or if he has history of sexual infidelity.
Rule#2: Never employ a housemaid that is more beautiful than you, she may turn out to be your nemesis and take your husband from you.
Rule#3: Never employ housemaid you cannot control.
Rule#4: Don't go for a housemaid if you do not really need one.
Rule#5: If your housemaid suddenly become uncontrollable, stubborn and disobedient to you, while your husband see nothing wrong in it, be very observant, there is something fishy under your roof.
Rule#6: Don't ever permit your maid to be tying towel for hours just because she wants to take her bath.

Rule#7: Never employ a maid if you don't have a separate room where you are going to put her.
Rule#8: Don't ever employ a house boy if you have only girls as children.
Rule#9: Don't give your old dresses that your husband likes on you to your maid.
Rule#10: Avoid constant travelling
Rule#11: Never allow your children disrespect her, let them respect her, she is older than them. Don't tell them she is just an house girl.
Rule#12: Don't surrender your kitchen to you maid.
Rule#13: Be good to your maid, be a mother to her.

Be smart, be observant , take total control of your home in order to avoid stories that touch the heart.

This article is by no means trying to be negative towards house helps, after all someone who is paid to help out in someone else's house is a human being and will also have their own happy home one day. I also appreciate that some house house helps will also never allow themselves to be in that situation.


Source: AfricanSweetHeart