It's been 6 years! Saturday, November 11, 2006. There was a flurry of activity in the room that morning as my bridesmaids helped me get ready. We heard a knock and were all surprised to see my groom poke his head around the door. "Shuggy!!!", I squealed with excitement, dropping everything and making a beeline for the door.
The girls tried to shoo him away, insisting that he was not supposed to see the bride before the ceremony. Paying them no mind, I ran into his arms and as he held me, I closed my eyes and said a quick thank you to God. My heart was filled with joy and gratitude. They teased us and we laughed. That was the beginning. I knew my life would change when I said my vows that day.
Times when giving up seemed like a better option. Days when love became a choice, a tough one, because the feeling was just not there. We have made it through the storms, surviving love's ebb and flow. We have laughed and cried together. We've evolved and grown together. We have made memories together. As I look back on the past six years, my heart is filled with gratitude to God. I'm grateful for all His blessings, especially the ones that money cannot buy. I am grateful for the opportunity to walk this journey with you Adebola, the love of my life and the life that I love. My booboookins. All round great guy, steady proving to me that there is a God. Putting up with my skoin skoin issues. Keeping my heart tender. Letting me thrive. When I count my blessings, I count you twice. Olowo ori mi. Nwoke e ji eje mba. I celebrate you. I'm grateful for Nathan Ademide, Alexis Ademidun and David Ademidara, the children God gave us. If God's blessings were earned, I would notqualify.
Moshopef'OluwanitoriwipeOsh'orenlafunmi. If I had a thousand tongues they would not be enough. I have no idea what the future holds. Truth be told, I am afraid sometimes. What if...? To keep fear at bay, I keep reminding myself of the scripture God gave me in the beginning "There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear..." 1 John 4:18 The truth is that in life, there are no guarantees. Life happens and there will always be things that are beyond my control. I have the option of refusing to maximize my life by living in fear, or choosing to make the best of what God has given me, trusting Him to perfect what He has started. I look forward to the future holding firmly unto this promise: "Being confident of this very thing, that He who has begun a good work in you will complete it until the day of Jesus Christ" Philippians 1:6 Thanks for coming by again and again. May your dreams come true.
Source: Betty Nwabunike's blog
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